PRENDRE: Stop Learning French One Situation at a Time

Aug 25 / Ellie Louis
Why one familiar verb can travel from the café to the station, and much further.

PRENDRE had finished being our word of the month. It had not finished doing its work.

Several weeks later, we were exploring IL FAUT.

Learners were using it to talk about necessity, advice and what needed to happen next. They knew PRENDRE. They had spent a month discovering what it could do.

But nobody was bringing the two together.

So I asked:

Why aren't you saying il faut prendre?

The answer was essentially:

I don't know.

They knew both pieces. They simply had not connected them.

Then the arrows began appearing in their Cahiers:

IL FAUT → PRENDRE

That little pencil line may be one of the clearest explanations of what we do at The French Room.

Learning does not become useful simply because you know all the pieces. It becomes useful when the pieces start connecting to one another.


PRENDRE does not stay in the café

Most learners come across PRENDRE as the French verb meaning to take.

Then they learn:

Je prends un café.

This is usually presented as café French: a useful phrase for ordering a drink.

Learn it. Practise it. Place it inside the imaginary café section of your French. Then move on to transport, where you will learn how to catch a train. After that, perhaps appointments, where you will learn how to make a booking.

There is nothing wrong with learning French through situations. We all need to know what to say when the waiter arrives.

The problem comes when every situation becomes a sealed compartment requiring its own vocabulary.

PRENDRE offers a different route.

Je prends un café. I'll have a coffee.

Je prends le train de huit heures. I'm taking, or catching, the eight o'clock train.

Je vais prendre rendez-vous. I'm going to make, or book, an appointment.

Il faut prendre une décision. We need to make a decision.


English keeps changing its verb.

French keeps PRENDRE.

That's useful to know because the English-speaking learner may store these as four separate expressions involving have, catch, book and make.

In French, they are connected.

Je prends un café is not merely café French.

It is the beginning of a system.


What "to take" prevents us from seeing

Translations are useful. We need some way into a new word.

But the first translation can become a label that is surprisingly difficult to peel off.

If PRENDRE means to take, expressions such as prendre rendez-vous and prendre une décision begin to look like exceptions. They are placed on the steadily growing pile marked "French expressions I must somehow remember".

Then we encounter more:


prendre le petit déjeuner to have breakfast

prendre froid to catch a chill

prendre peur to become frightened

prendre confiance to gain confidence

prendre son temps to take one's time


From an English point of view, PRENDRE appears to be wandering around doing several unrelated jobs.

From a French point of view, English is the language that keeps changing its mind.

The useful question is not:

What does PRENDRE translate as here?

It is:

What is PRENDRE doing in French?

That shift turns a collection of idioms back into a network.


Carry the verb, not the script

A dependable word does not mean carrying one memorised sentence unchanged into every conversation.

It means you can rebuild around something steady:


Je prends… I'm having/taking…

Je vais prendre… I'm going to have/take…

Je voudrais prendre… I would like to have/take…

On peut prendre… ? Can we have/take…?

Il faut prendre… We need to take/make…


The café, restaurant, station and appointment are no longer separate performances for which you must learn four scripts.

The situation changes.

Your intention changes.

The sentence grows.

But PRENDRE keeps turning up for work.

This is what I mean by a word having horsepower. Its value is not measured by how advanced it looks or how many dictionary definitions it possesses. Its value lies in what it enables you to do.

PRENDRE has serious horsepower.


Grammar now has somewhere to attach

One of the peculiarities of traditional language learning is that we are often taught grammar before we have any particular need for it.

Here are three types of article. Here is a pronoun. Here is a tense.

Please learn them now. Their purpose may become apparent later.

Working from PRENDRE reverses that relationship.

You begin with something you want to say:

Je prends un café.

Now the questions become useful.

Why un café here?

What changes in:

Tu prends du café ?

And if the answer is yes, why can we say:

Oui, j'en prends.

Why does an identifiable choice on the menu give us:

Je prends le plat du jour.

The grammar has not disappeared. In fact, PRENDRE can lead us into articles, en, negatives, questions, infinitives, tenses and modality.

But the grammar is no longer standing at the entrance like an examination you must pass before being permitted to order lunch.

It is solving a problem created by something you already want to communicate.

PRENDRE does not avoid grammar.

It gives grammar somewhere meaningful to attach.


Why spend a month on one word?

A single lesson could show you ten expressions containing PRENDRE.

You might remember three of them by the following week.

A month allows something else to happen.

We begin with an Overview:

Is PRENDRE worth your attention? What could it help you do?

We discover that "to take" is nowhere near big enough to contain it.

Then we Build.

We strengthen familiar French through cafés, restaurant choices, transport and ordinary transactions. We vary the articles, the intention and the sentence around the word.

Then we Extend.

PRENDRE moves into time, decisions, responsibility, reactions and changes of state:


prendre l'air to get some fresh air

prendre un coup de soleil to get sunburnt

prendre ses responsabilités to take responsibility

Le projet prend forme. The project is taking shape.


The objective is not to copy every expression into your Cahier.

It is to decide which parts are valuable to you and give them enough use to become dependable.

A month also gives the word time to leave the lesson.

You begin hearing it elsewhere. You notice it in an email, a film or another Tuto. You try it in a different sentence.

You forget something, retrieve it and strengthen the route back to it.

By the end of the month, PRENDRE has not been completed.

It has been put into circulation in your mind and your conversation. 


One month begins connecting with another

This is why the arrows in the Cahier mattered.

When PRENDRE's official month ended, we did not seal it in a completed section and congratulate ourselves on having covered it.

Later words began finding it.

L'AIR could reconnect through:

prendre l'air

UN COUP could bring us:

prendre un coup de soleil

And IL FAUT opened the route that learners initially missed:

Il faut prendre une décision.

The moment they drew a line between those words, their Cahiers stopped being collections of notes and became networks.

That is the difference between remembering that two expressions exist and recognising that they can work together.

French becomes easier, and quite frankly much more exciting, when you stop seeing it as separate pieces and start seeing how everything connects.


The word must also reach your voice

You can understand every example on this page and still hesitate when somebody asks what you would like to order.

Recognition is not yet spoken ownership.

A structure such as je voudrais prendre… needs to be said aloud. The sounds have to join up. The rhythm must become comfortable enough to carry the rest of the sentence.

This is why speaking and voice work belong inside the method.

The aim is not merely to know that PRENDRE can travel.

It is to have it ready to travel when you do.


You do not need every part of PRENDRE

Spending a month with one word does not mean trying to own every use.

You might Bank:

Je vais prendre rendez-vous.

Someone else may need:

Je prends le train de huit heures.

A third person might find that prendre son temps belongs much more naturally in their life.

The word is shared. What each person builds around it is personal.

Nor does PRENDRE remove the need for specific vocabulary. You will still need the name for the train, the medicine, the dish or the professional subject you want to discuss.

But PRENDRE gives that vocabulary somewhere to go.

It helps turn a noun you know into a sentence you can use.


Let familiar French travel further

Adult learners frequently assume that conversation fails because they do not know enough French.

Sometimes that is true.

But often the French they need is already present. It has simply been filed under one situation, attached to one English translation or left unconnected to everything learnt afterwards.

PRENDRE showed us how much can change when one familiar word is allowed to travel.

It can take you from the café to the station, into an appointment and onwards to an important decision. It can attract grammar, connect with later words and support sentences that become increasingly sophisticated without requiring you to begin again each time.

That is the larger principle behind The French Room 907 Method: fluency grows when familiar, high-frequency words start doing more work.

The route to more French is not always more words.

Sometimes it is more from one word.

If you would like to experience what happens when you give one word sustained attention, begin with the free course A Month Inside The French Room.


Where PRENDRE lives inside The French Room

This post is the introduction. The work happens elsewhere in the school.

  • The Vocabulary Library holds PRENDRE's shelf: the uses, the expressions and the sentence patterns from the month, arranged so you can take what is useful to you and leave the rest.
  • The Grammar Journeys pick up what PRENDRE opens, including articles, en, and the object pronouns that arrive once you start saying je le prends.
  • The Listening Library puts PRENDRE into perspective and lets you hear how much it comes up in everyday conversation.
  • The Tutos from PRENDRE's month are where all of this was taught, and they stay available in the library for as long as you are a member of Bonjour Brilliance our Self-Study Programme.

Members can go straight there. If you are not a member yet, the free course walks you through a complete month and shows you how the pieces fit together.

Questions people ask me about PRENDRE

What does prendre mean in French?

The usual translation is to take, and that covers only part of it. Prendre is the verb French reaches for across ordering, travelling, booking, deciding and changing state, so it appears where English would use have, catch, book, make, get or become. It is more useful to ask what prendre is doing in a sentence than what it translates as.

What are the most common expressions with prendre?

Among the most reusable are prendre un café, prendre le train, prendre rendez-vous, prendre une décision, prendre son temps, prendre l'air and prendre froid. They look like separate idioms from English, but each one is prendre doing the same underlying job in a different setting.

Why does English use different verbs where French keeps prendre?

English distributes the work across several verbs, so one French sentence pattern becomes have a coffee, catch a train, book an appointment and make a decision. Learning them as four unrelated phrases hides the fact that French treats them as one. Working from the French verb rather than the English translation keeps the connection visible.

Where this way of working comes from

  • Picoche, Jacqueline (1993), Didactique du vocabulaire français, Paris: Nathan.
  • Picoche, Jacqueline and Rolland, Jean-Claude (2002), Dictionnaire du français usuel: 15 000 mots utiles en 442 articles, Brussels: De Boeck/Duculot. The dictionary organises useful vocabulary relationally around high-frequency headwords rather than presenting French as a flat list of translations. See Vocanet's description of the work.
  • For the research lineage and the adult-learning system developed from it, see How The French Room Works.

  • About Ellie Louis

    Ellie Louis is the bilingual founder of The French Room, an online French school for adults established in 2015. She has taught French for nearly 15 years and completed more than 10,000 hours of live teaching. Drawing on more than 30 years of living, working and communicating in French, she developed The French Room 907 Method to help adults turn high-frequency vocabulary into French they can retrieve and use naturally in real conversation.
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