Student Success Stories - Nicky - Starting Fresh in France

May 27

Starting Fresh in France—with the Right Support

When Nicky moved to France to begin her retirement, it was the start of a long-held dream. She wanted to settle in, make connections, and really live the French lifestyle—not just as a visitor, but as part of the community.

Almost immediately after arriving, she got in touch with Ellie at The French Room.

“From our first conversation, I knew I was in the right place,” she said. “Ellie just got it—my motivation, my nerves, and my hopes.”

Yes, she needed to show she was studying French to meet visa requirements. But for Nicky, it was about so much more than that. She wanted to connect—with her neighbours, her village, and the country she now called home.

“From our first conversation, I knew I was in the right place,” she said. “Ellie just got it—my motivation, my nerves, and my hopes.”

Meet Nicky

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Learning to Speak Without the Script

At first, speaking French felt slow and awkward—especially compared to her usual easy, expressive style in English. Nicky described feeling like she had to rehearse every sentence, translating each word in her head before saying anything aloud.

The turning point came during a trip in Paris, when she was walking through the city to meet friends. Focused on her GPS and anxious about getting lost, she completely missed walking past the Moulin Rouge. Her friends laughed gently—and pointed out what she’d just passed.

That moment stuck with her.

“I realised I was so focused on getting it right, I missed what was right in front of me.”

That insight changed how she approached conversation too. “I stopped trying to script everything in my head,” she said. “Now I try to stay present and just respond.” For Nicky, that was the real beginning of French conversation—not just French preparation.

“I realised I was so focused on getting it right, I missed what was right in front of me.”

A Circle of Friends—and Stories Worth Sharing

Every Monday evening, Nicky joins her regular French Room group. “It feels like a circle of friends now,” she says. The group shares laughs, lessons, and the kinds of moments that turn learners into a friendship group.

She talks about her travels around France in her camping car, the neighbours who now drop in for coffee, and the golf club she’s joined and become part of. These aren’t just updates. They’re stories—told in French—with confidence and warmth.

Confidence Built by Kind Challenge

Earlier in her journey, Nicky also took part in an intensive online course with The French Room. At first, it felt a bit daunting. But that feeling didn’t last.

“Ellie gently encouraged me out of my comfort zone to push me forward,” she said. “It wasn’t always easy—but it worked.”

By the end of the week, something had shifted. Her French felt more natural, and she found herself starting conversations without overthinking. The safe, supportive atmosphere gave her the push she needed—without pressure.

Living Life in French—With Ease and Enjoyment

Now in her second year in France, Nicky’s French is no longer something she’s “working on.” It’s part of how she lives.

She speaks with neighbours, joins village events, and tells her stories in French with clarity, humour, and joy.

“I’d 100% recommend an intensive course with Ellie,” she says. “It’s the perfect place to be pushed—just the right amount—in a way that feels safe and supportive.”

For Nicky, learning French hasn’t been about perfection. It’s been about letting go, joining in and learning to say what matters in the moment.

Nicky comes to a live group class once a week. She uses her annual subscription to Bonjour Brilliance to hone in on areas of study that naturally come up through her conversations in France. The Learn French libraries work really well for her dip in and out study needs. She has also attended a week long online immersive course that she says really helped shift her French along to the next level.

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